Married men in contact with exes
Why is it that so many men (married or otherwise) refuse to let go of ex girlfriends and want to remain "in contact' via email or texts. Though they claim they don't want involvement with her, they don't want to cut off contact.
Is the ex simply a backup plan if the marriage or relationship fails or is it more complicated than that? I honestly don't get it.
I have had this experience on both sides of the equation and know many other women who have experienced this as well.