Scot McKay

Scot McKay is a personal dating coach, author and podcaster on the subject of dating, seduction and relationships. He teaches men to use a character-based approach to identify and attract the MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex. Scot lives in San Antonio, TX with his wife (and "proof-of-concept") Emily, three well-behaved kids and two hairless terriers that are decidedly NOT well-behaved. Known for his monumental Virtuosity and Leading Man programs, Scot and Emily are both available for private consultation.

Having been featured and/or consulted by over 135 media outlets worldwide, Scot is a frequent collaborator with other well-known dating experts--notably as a guest on David DeAngelo's "Interviews With Dating Gurus" series.

While now a recognized presence in what's commonly known as The Seduction Community, Scot does not train men to be "pickup artists".

Rather, through a combination of deserving what you want and decoding the opposite sex's thought process, Scot talks about how a masculine, confident man of true character and leadership skill is an authentic representation of the man the most desirable women want, obviating the need for 'tricks' and 'techniques'.

His next-generation concepts transcend mere pickup and seduction and describe a state of having 100% control over one's dating life, culminating in the ability to attract the highest quality women on Earth, effectively manage relationships and make wise decisions from a position of strength.


I'm a confident women who dates a lot, but I've found it hard to settle down because there simply aren't enough men who I can trust to lead. I can attest that there are tons of single women, like me, who are looking for a confident man who can lead the relationship. Even as independent and successful as women have become there is no substitute for having the right man in your life - a man who can lead.

Scott's advice in The Leading Man is right on target. It's refreshing to hear him talk about taking a character based approach when dealing with women. Believe me, it's like a secret weapon. Check out his video lessons for more insight on how and why men who lead succeed most with women. There are so many of us waiting for guys to finally get it.


Articles by Scot

Who "Chooses" and Who "Chases" - Men or Women?

What Women Really Think About Men Who Don't Approach Them

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